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This makes me thing of a time when I would come out of a deep thought and would have no memory of what I was thinking, but that it was urgent and if I couldn't recall it my life was in danger. I felt I was going to die. They were extremely unsettling experiences. I can't even say my age at the time. I remember the home I lived in, I was older than 9.

How do you develop this if you are an orphan!???

This has 2b a spoof!!😂 at least it is 2me..... what a wonderful woorld

Ohhhh culty quackery

So they don't have empathy. Actual empathy.

Current ideas: HSP=ASD1 Might help to look into ASD1 - the new stuff- We are sensitive, so aware, and yet sometimes misreading intention/vibe, so more easily manipulated by A-holes…. For one possible scenario. ❤❤❤

Isolation has nothing to do with mental illness is a horizontal thinking world and I don't want to be around you.

My mom did mean things to me... When I was young she told me to get the dog and we went to the boondocks and she left trh dog in the woods and we went home.. I loved Freckles.. She too me to a salon and told them to cut my hair short.. My family knew she was mean to me.. I thought to of been ok.. She kicked me out before I was 18..anyways.. I am now recovering from a covert malignant narcissist that use reactionary abuse on me ans he is a dark triage.. LORD help us all.

Acceptance will give you the ability to interact with others in a calm real kind response. Stop trying to make other people who you think they should be. And let them be who they are. This is acceptance

You just described my whole childhood.

Wow. I have been trying to understand myself and my parent relationship as I provide daily care for my parent who is now under hospice care. A person with narcissistic tendencies really does struggle as they age and lose being the center of attention. Your insight was extremely helpful and left me with my mouth open at times with increased understanding of some of my patterns throughout life…. I feel seen, validated and encouraged with additional tools to love my parent, ( and myself) well in this last season of their life. Thank you!

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As a child of a bpd parent, I beg all of the bpd people to stay medicated and watched by a therapist. My bpd parent was pure evil when left unchecked.

Yes I can relate.

No they dont have a soul, when they turn the corner and you hit eye contact with them and you literally see pure grey/black in their eyes? Give me a break. Demons.

We get fucked

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Decades, but the last two weeks absolutely when a close friend passed, my annual diagnostic mammogram results after breast cancer, why the hell would I feel close to this person.

Absolutely comes across as emotional punishment. Tantrum.

Oh my.. This is a curse. I know. I vow to become healthy. ❤ Physically and mentally. I eat walnuts raw with meals.. Raw seeds for the brain. Drink good water.. Exercise. Eat whole foods. Pay attention to vit D levels and no toxic vit and minerals. Prioritize sleep. Take care of yourself. Leave these monsters asap.. The damage to the brain and psych is horrible. I now know I am a highly empathetic person.. Who got victimized by a sick covert malignant narc of the dark triage.

I lived this and though she ended up passing away the damage had been done. He went full out narc mania after and I'm still trying to get out of the marriage. She's gone and he no longer has her to run to. I kind of feel sorry but quickly get ahold of myself bc there is no feeling sorry for me or what i dealt w via my own narc mother. He's literally trying to destroy me and now i have to respond in kind and i hate it.

She tore us apart. I dropped my narc for him, but he could not dump his for me and our son. She DEMANDED he put her over me. Well, fine. Bye. Keep her.

I think of that photograph of the little spider on the wall with the light behind it casting a HUGE shadow. 😊

I cut mumzie off 2009, she cut dad off in 70s and put my brother in her bed. Hope shes gone so he can start to live. Sad. Hes 61 I don't know. Maybe too late.

"we did a longer video on this. now, here are the things they have in common..."

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It’s taken me nine years - with the last 5 years being the hardest but with the most growth.

I don’t appreciate that my cousin acts totally different around her cousins and you know it’s weird because I feel like people should act like they’re true so instead of fake because I know her real self and her fake self

A whole life of internal struggles, the damage from narcissistic parental abuse is devastating .....A whole life of healing, inevitably

If I'm a covert narcissist, how do I change that?

I. Need. Help. Please. Sir. To. Get. Out. Soon. Please.

He. Say. If. He. Hit. Me. Nothing. Left. Of. Me. He. Say. On. Jan. 1. Last. Year. He. As. Domestic. Violence. He. Is. Very. Violent. And. Dangerous.

I'm. So. Sad. My. Life. With. This. Pure. Evil. Abuse. Me. Is. Bully. And. Violent. Talk , He. As. Domestic. Violence. Since. Last. Jan. 1. 2024.

Yes. Sir. You. So. Right. I. Live. With. A. Narc. Man. For. 2. Years. And. 9. Months. He. Is. Pure. Evil. Abusive. And. Toxic. I. Not. Happy. I. Want. Be. Free. From. Him. He. Do. Not. Care. For. Me. How. Can. I. Get. Out. Of. This. Toxic. Guy. Pure. Evil. Thank. You. So. Much. Sir. God. Bless. You. Pray. For. Me. Please. ❤❤❤❤😢

Okay, that sounds like a psychopath. So what is a high functioning psychopath?

I've been at it now for almost 6 years I've dealt with most of the worst of it but still have things to work on.... I'm amazed every day how much I've changed for the better its wild I'm becoming the real me the person I always knew I wanted to be but despaired as a child that I could ever become and now I am ☺️

💯 Those all are def helpful & the Carnivore nutrition lifestyle finally has been the ticket to calm my nervous system. Things no longer trigger & send me into fight, flight & freeze (from having struggled with c-ptsd). Dr. Chaffee, Dr. Ken Berry, Dr. Shawn Baker, Dr. Kiltz & Homestead How all have great info on it. It saved my life & the lives of many others. Nutrition is the foundation to Healing. 🤍

I agree, but I would find it more complete if it mentioned, that the connection is not linear since many other factors like the child's personality, or the next of keen besides parents form relationships and so on

Yes. They also "charm" the boss and make him feel good to get away with stuff later. Also crying...Acting the victim....

Wow. This is so helpful! This answers so many questions I've had over the years. Thank you!!

I'm trying to find an explanation of the types of attachment trauma and how they present, and hopefully how to address them. Have you done that one yet? Am I just missing it?

It’s not difficult. Walk away. You owe them nothing. It’s only difficult if you are dependent on them for something e.g. money, or if it affects another relative you care for.

None of this is actuality medically verified

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He used terms I don’t know to describe a term I don’t know

Get the defeat off repeat!

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